Based on your initial reaction after watching this video, describe in detail each reflective prompt. Each answer should demonstrate a depth of exploration. Answer each numbered prompt in separate paragraphs.

1. If you were assigned this birthing couple, or this birthing person, what would your reaction/feelings be? Why?

Without judgement, I think that my first reaction would be a little bit surprised. I might have some questions, because it is just something that you do not see in the everyday life. I think that it is interesting to say the least. I guess I would wonder how testosterone could affect the pregnancy and the fetus but other than that I would respect this couples pregnancy/birthing decision. I think that it is worth growing accustomed too, because I believe over time you will slowly start to see more scenarios like this one.

1. What are some methods of promoting inclusivity in the healthcare setting? How can we, as nurses, help our patient feel more comfortable during a vulnerable time?

I think that we as healthcare workers have to understand the diversity of people that we are going to be taking care of and that it is important to embrace and respect everyone that we are going to help. Treating everyone with the same care and respect will go a long way for both you and the patient. We can help our patients by using a calming manner, reassure the patient that they are not alone, and that many people experience things such as pregnancy. We could connect the patient or the couple to support groups if needed.

1. Think back to the Pediatrics e-Portfolio assignment. How might using female-specific language in nursing report impact the delivery of care? How might it impact the patient’s comfort in using healthcare services, both short-term and long-term?

I think that it may impact the delivery of care, because Ari considers himself a man and he should be treated with respect in regards to his pregnancy. I would say that to an extent you still need to use female-specific language for certain things but maybe explain to Ari or ask him what he prefers you to say.  The patient may be uncomfortable in the short-term setting, which I think is understandable as the nurses may be unfamiliar in this circumstance as well. I think that the level of discomfort may not ever go away because with each hospitalization or visit to a hospital Ari will have to explain that he is transgender and identifies as male. It may be hard to always have to explain to people.